So many times have heard the term "first time I set my eyes on him/her,I fell in Love". And I begin to ponder how possible is this?
How can you possibly love a being you just met for the first time,without any previous meeting and in your stomach butterflies have started flutter.
I ask myself what did you fall in Love with?
Is it the inner beauty you are yet to know? or the Charisma the person. Or the fact that she says she's a good cook, and you agree if though you haven't tasted her food yet!..
Maybe its the religious angle, you think she is God-fearing, remember it's the first time you are meeting her. How do you even know she's religious or God fearing, what if demons exist in her (just saying)
I think I get it!
You fell in love with her shape/figure, lips and the way she carries herself across the room.. She's gat nice boobs and ass and you think "ooh I'm in love with her already" . The first time I set my eyes on his abs, I melted away and couldn't take my eyes of him, I want to be wit him ..yada yada yad!!!
Truly the attractioncan be on first sight but it is certainly not Love but lust!
Research has shown two basis for love at first sight.
The first is that the attractiveness of a person can be very quickly determined, with the average time in one study being 0.13 seconds. The second is that the first few minutes, but not the first moment, of a relationship have shown to be predictive of the relationship's future success, more so than what two people have in common or whether they like each other (" like attracts like").
Infatuation, not to be confused with love at first sight, is the state of being carried away by an unreasoned passion or assumed Love. It was described as a desire to express the libidinal attraction of addictive Love, inspired with an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone.
In short, that is Lust at first Sight!
Research as actually proved that Love at first sight exist, which has led different relationship into marriages but just like the first base of love at first sight, A man or woman would be attracted to the opposite sex on the basis of what he/she physically sees in 0.13 seconds not the inner beauty .
On getting to know the opposite sex more,they tend to prove that they are worth staying with for the rest of their lives. Then all the good things, charisma, inner beauty which you actually feel in Love with, will now be made manifest.
My belief here is that some people sometimes mistake "infatuation" or "lust" for falling in love because of the sexual attraction that is involved .
However, in some cases, If the couples kick start the relationship from the "lust" angle and it works out, then the Lust might transit to Love.
But still some people still believe in Love at first sight.